The Journey...

I started this blog in 2010 under the title "The Fat to Fit Chronicles" to document the training for and completion of my very first half-marathon. My decision to train was the first step on my journey from fat to fit. In my former life I was 319 lbs, depressed, and living a "less than" life.

Over the course of training I discovered a passion for fitness and helping others. So this blog has morphed into something more than just my musings and venting. My hope is that when you leave this blog you have learned something or picked up something valuable to aide you along your own journey.

So mount up, Posse, and let's go from Fat to Fit!!



Thursday, December 8, 2011

Undigested Knowledge

"The great end of life is not knowledge, but action. What men need is as much knowledge as they can assimilate and organize into a basis for action. . ." ~Thomas Henry Huxley

Losing weight is not rocket science. I've lost weight by taking diet pills, following diet fads, attempting to starve myself, wearing contraptions and devices, even weight loss surgery. All these methods can work to lose weight, but once you get back to real life you tend to find all that weight you lost. The problem then, is not losing the weight (I actually prefer the term "shedding" instead of "losing" because when you shed something you don't get it back). The problem is maintaining a lifestyle to never get it back.

I remember back in the fall of 2009 I had to make the hard choice to give up my YMCA membership because I just couldn't afford it anymore.  At that time I was about six or seven months post surgery and was probably around 280 lbs and I was scared of gaining back whatever weight I had lost. I was also scared of not losing anymore weight. It seemed like everytime I got into a stride with the whole fitness thing life would throw me a curveball and I'd end up back in the dugout (I know nothing about baseball so that's the end of that metaphor!). I thought about how I could be active without depending on a gym, an instructor, any eqiupment, etc. The answer: running.

My first attempt at running was based on an article in Muscle&Fitness Hers that talked about interval training. I made up my own version of interval training and would hit the pavement in the evenings after putting the boys to sleep. . .then it got cold. It would be another six months or so before I ventured back into the world of running. I didn't know much about running so I read a few articles on Runner's World website and put together a training plan based on Hal Higdon and Jeff Galloway's plans. With my goal in mind and a little bit of knowledge I set off to make it happen.  Along the way I have picked up nuggets of knowledge and put them to use.

Why am I telling you this? I'm telling you this because the lesson I learned is that knowledge is useless without the application. I also learned that you don't have to every detail in order to DO something. So, again, why am I telling you this? Because too often we start our journey at a breakneck pace and get all this information on exercise, dieting, superfoods, supplements, etc and we go hard for a week. What is the use of all that knowledge if you're not doing anything with it?

The most effective thing you can do to get on the right track to fitness is to GET ON THE TRACK. Once you're on it you will pick up nuggets along the way to help you move more efficiently. So what that your sister is all into eating clean. For now, you just need to focus on eating better and clean it up as you go along. Mature in your journey before you start getting fancy. So what that your cousin does Crossfit five days a week. For now, you just need to focus on being ACTIVE on a consistent basis before you drop the deniro for something like that.

(No, this is not my foot.)

Do what you can with what you have, right where you are. My first jogs were in shoes that I bought from Goodwill that were about a half-size too small for running; my toenail turned black and fell off. Freaked me out! But from that I learned the importance of proper fitting running shoes. My first forays into preparing healthy meals for my family included a lot of processed foods. But along the way I've learned how to make better choices and how to eat healthier on a budget.

Your actions will net you results. If you stay on the track you will get better at it. I have people asking me for help all the time and my first suggestion for them is to exercise 3-4 times a week for 30-45 minutes a day for three weeks and track what they are eating (with adjustments made accordingly). Why? Because I want to see if they line up their actions with their words. I want to see if they are willing to invest the time in themselves. Are you ready to do something different to BE something different? It's not rocket science. . .it's applied science.


Sunday, November 20, 2011

The M Factor

All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another. ~Anatole France

While I have opinions galore, I do not claim to be an expert on fitness, nutrition, and weight loss. I am not the fittest person I know. I am not the fastest person I know. I am not the strongest person I know. I am not the most perfect eater (dieter?) I know. Lately people have been saying I inspire them or I help them stay motivated. People ask me what I've done to lose weight and keep it off. They ask about eating habits, exercising, meal planning, etc. I don't profess to know all the answers, but I can tell you what I know for sure is the most important factor in the equation: YOUR MIND!

Get your mind right! You can have the best plan in the world, best trainer, best support system, all the time in the world, the best equipment, best shoes, best outfit (can a girl get some Athleta or Northface??). . .and none of it matters until you are mentally ready to change. Here's the truth: everyone wants results but very few are willing to commit to the behaviors that net results. This truth applies to every area of our lives. There are Christians who want the blessings of God without following the will of God (which is not always easy!). There are those who want six-figure lives without doing the work it takes to make those six-figures. There are those who want the benefits of an abundant life without ever changing.

You will forever battle with weight and body image (or finances or relationships, etc) until you determine in your mind that you are willing to do something different to net a different, desired result. We are so quick to make excuses or justifications for how and why we do things, and yet we want a different result. We want change to be comfortable, friendly. We want change on our terms, in our time, in our own way. Well, do we really want change? Do we really want a different result if we aren't willing to do something different to get it?

A person says, "I like group fitness classes. I can't workout by myself." There are a host of free and low-cost classes around town at all times of the day, and yet she never goes to any. Or if she goes she has to enlist other friends to go with her. And even then, she only goes a couple of times. So how badly does she really want change? What is she willing to do differently to net the desired result? Until she is willing to get out of her comfort zone she will not see change. Until she purposes in her mind that what she "likes" is not getting her anywhere, she won't get anywhere. She will look up and five years later she will be living the same cycle of behavior.

A person says, "I don't like this food or that food. It's okay to have some (insert your fav food) every now and then." But he doesn't have it every now and then; he has it just about every other day. Then he half-heartily tries healthier options, always with the predetermined mindset that he won't like it. What kind of result can he expect? It's not really about the food, is it? As time passes all those "every now and then" moments add up to clogged arteries, intestinal issues, heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure and a host of other preventable ailments.

Some of us don't consider ourselves worthy enough to even try to live differently. Some of us are complacent about our lives and don't strive to thrive; we merely exist. There are people out there who look in the mirror with disgust and then eat. Then they feel disgusted with themselves for eating and cut themselves down even more. They decide that the abundant life was not meant for them and that negativity spills over into other parts of their lives. How can you ever have change if you can't "see" it for yourself? We walk around living dimished lives because we have not allowed ourselves to be greater.

You may never decide to run, and that's fine. However you decide to embark on this journey, the place you must start is with your thinking and your mental fortitude. The work you put forth in clearing out the negative and self-destructive thinking and emotions will pay off tremendously. When that alarm goes off in the morning it's not your body that's unable to move (well. . .in most cases). Your body will follow what your mind tells it. When you're eating, your stomach knows it's full but there is something in your mind that keeps the food coming. When you're exercising and it starts getting tough, it is your mind that will carry your body through the workout.

If you want lasting change you have to get your mind right. Otherwise, you'll be like the children of Israel circling the same mountain for 40 years. What a waste! What could they have built in those 40 years if they had let go of the junk in their minds? What could they have experienced if they had just allowed their minds to be renewed and followed the instructions given to them? How much of your life have you wasted walking around the same problem? Are you ready to do something different?