Fueled by Victory

The day God gave the Amorites up to Israel, Joshua spoke to God, with all Israel listening:  “Stop, Sun, over Gibeon; Halt, Moon, over Aijalon Valley.”  And Sun stopped, moon stood stock still until he defeated his enemies. ~Joshua 10:12-13

Consistent. Relentless. Tenacious.



Some people don't believe me when I tell them that my fitness journey has helped me grow into a stronger Christian and a stronger person (mentally, emotionally). It sounds crazy considering I have battled with weight all of my life. But God used the one area of my life that had always been a struggle to be my ministry. Amazing...my purpose is rooted in my struggle. The principles and lessons I learn on my fitness journey help me along the other paths in my life. Principles, with their lovely selves, can be applied to anyone and just about any situation.

The other morning I was facing a personal crisis and wanted to crawl into a ball and just give up. I went through the motions of getting dressed and getting everyone out the door, all while fighting against the "take me now" screaming in my head. I got in the car and looked in the rear view mirror. I looked at myself and I look defeated. Me? Not Fit Girl? And then I recalled mile eight of the 2012 St Jude Music City Half Marathon when my ankle was on fire, my calves were cramping, and my pace was slipping. I remember telling myself, "It's not over. Finish strong." My gait changed. I was no longer whimpering. The only option I gave myself was to finish, and do it well. So, I fixed my form, stopped the whimpering and still hit a PR. But it doesn't' stop there.

With legs cramping and energy low, I changed and made it to my flag football game. I played a full game--offense (center), defense (defensive end), and special teams!! My very first play I dropped the ball because my hands were cramping. From that point on I told myself, "If you're gonna play, then play hard." No one watching that game would know that less than an hour beforehand I had done a half marathon. 

What point am I trying to make?

April 28, 2012

When you go into battle, you go with the hope of victory fueling you forward. If you don't have that hope of victory, why are you even fighting? And being Christian the fire is even bigger because I know with surety that I will be victorious--if only for the glory of God. 

Victory. I cannot even describe what it feels like to someone who hasn't tasted it. But once you know victory in any area of your life, it spurs you forward to the next conquest, the next challenge. I imagine the Israelites felt that way as they defeated thirty plus (32??) nations on their quest to claim the Promised Land. Joshua was so sure of victory that he had the audacity to ask God to let the sun stand still so he could keep whooping tail. What?! Ooooo weee!! When you know the taste of victory,you are not easily defeated.

As you gear up for your workout or preparing your meals, or even just facing your life, ask yourself if you are fueled by the hope of victory. Is that illustrated by how you carry yourself and go through life? Or are you limply fighting, awaiting defeat? Be fueled by VICTORY!

Save a Dollar, Make Ya Hollah!

My little sister shared the following post on Facebook:



Save a buck or two!



"Let me share my frustration with you, Facebook. So, I'm not the best eater, but I do what I can. Every now & then, I splurge & buy a little something for myself. Keep in mind I'm an unemployed college student, so I can't afford to trick off in the grocery store all the time. Last week I decided to get some fancy deli meats & cheeses. Even got some fresh produce & fancy 9 seed & grain wheat deli bread for my sammiches. Cool. Sammiches are DELICIOUS. Fast forward to today, I go to make a sammich. I have a whole half of MOLDY deli bread. Lemme tell you something. I don't eat sammiches enough to eat an entire loaf in one week, but I'm TIRED of wasting money & food trying to eat "healthier." $4 on bread that molds in 7 days. I could have spent $2 on bread that would last 2 months. This is why people buy cheap stuff. We don't have time or money to waste buying expensive food that doesn't last."

And of course, Big Sister is here to help. I know she's not the only person out there feeling the strain and frustration of eating healthy while on a budget. Let's face it, the grilled chicken wrap is not on the Dollar Menu. A box of my favorite quinoa costs $6.99 while a bag of white rice costs about five dollars less. So what's a F2F'er to do??

 

There are a few rules and tips I use when I grocery shop that I hope will help you.

What is your goal/purpose?

It can be confusing to decide on the best options when you hear so much about gluten free, organic, whole grains, farm raised, farm fresh, non-GMO, non-growth hormone injected, etc. etc. etc. With all of the studies and options out there, you have to decide your goal. Are you concerned about gluten? Then that should be a priority when you shop. Are you adamant about using and eating organic products? Then that should be a priority when you shop. However, if you don't really understand the hype and don't really know the difference, then don't spend the money. Do a little research, try a couple of products and then decide if you want to make it a shopping priority.  

Save then Plan, Plan to Save 

You see it all the time. Experts say plan your meals then go to the store, but I beg to differ. What works best for me is having staples on hand--which for me includes things like cans of black beans, eggs, egg whites, tuna, frozen chopped onions, canned tomatoes, high fiber oatmeal, frozen fruit, raw sugar, almond milk, etc.--and checking to see what items are on sale at my ususal grocery stores. Sometimes I luck up on deals while I'm in the store then I'll create a recipe using the things I have on hand.

 

For example, my local Walgreens had cans of pumpkin on clearance for like 24cents a can. I grabbed about six of them and then created pumpkin protein shakes, pumpkin protein muffins, and a crustless pumpkin pie for my boys. And yes, they all turned out great.

 

It may be helpful to you to have a couple of meals in mind but don't stick to those plans if they are harmful to your pockets.

 

Speaking of sales. I personally check Publix's (www.publix.com) weekly BOGOs and Kroger's (www.kroger.com) 10 for $10 or the coupon booklet they send me. I love Arnold's bread but it can be expensive, so I catch it while it's on BOGO at Publix. And to preserve it (because we really don't eat a lot of bread in my house), I keep it in the fridge. Also, check out some of the discount grocery stores. We have an Aldis near me and they have some name brand items for less than what I would pay at other grocery stores. You don't have to shop at Whole Foods or specialty health stores unless that is a priority for you (see the previous section). And don't forget to comparison shop. "Save a buck or two!"  

Keep It Simple

I fully admit that I skip past recipes that have more than ten ingredients. Seriously, "ain't nobody got time for that!" The beautiful thing about eating whole foods is that they already taste good. Cooking it should enhance their flavor, not hide it. Oh, and if it calls for crazy stuff like rolling out dough or requires some fancy equipment beyond my food chopper, a knife, a mixer, or a blender then I say, "No way, Jose."

 

One of the ways I create is by using recipes as a starting point. I'll read over a couple, check what I have on hand, and think about how I can change the recipes to suit my tastes. Keeping both the ingredients and the prep simple means you're more apt to create again. Remember, you're doing this eating healthy thing for the rest of your life.

Try One New Thing

My journey to fit has evolved over time. There are still times when I mix the good with the not so great, but for the most part I've overhauled my "diet" from what it used to be. One of the ways I've done that is by exploring food options.

 

I like to meander through the produce department and see what veggies are there that I haven't tried. Sometimes I'll google recipes while I'm standing there to see what the possibilities are. Who would have ever known that I would love spaghetti squash? Asparagus?? I don't ever recall eating that growing up, but now I absolutely love it. There was a time in my life when I hated spinach and now a bag of fresh spinach is a staple for me.

 

I encourage you to pick up one new item every time you shop. It will help you add variety and expand your palate. And think about the benefits to your body! Have your read all the wonderful news about lentils?? (I have a blog entry about it, check it out) Power packed, baby!

 

My one word of caution is to make sure that the new item fits into your budget. If it's on sale, sure, throw it in the cart. If it's going to break the bank, try it another time.

 

Fresh and Frozen

When I first started eathing healthier I would load up on fresh veggies...and a week later I would stress because I hadn't used all of them. Maybe you have money to burn, but I do not. Then one day I strolled down the freezer aisle and saw bagged chopped onions. Hmm...Add to that, "frozen vegetables may be even more healthful than some of the fresh produce sold in supermarkets, says Gene Lester, Ph.D., a plant physiologist at the USDA Agricultural Research Center in Weslaco, Texas...Fruits and vegetables chosen for freezing tend to be processed at their peak ripeness, a time when—as a general rule—they are most nutrient-packed." (www.eatingwell.com)

I'm sold! Now I buy most of my fruits and veggies frozen not only because it saves money, but because it also works for my life. Everytime I hit the grocery store I usually load up on frozen chopped onions, seasoning blend, 3 pepper and onion blend, broccoli, corn, cauliflower, carrots, green beans, and even brown rice (yes, Publix sells it frozen for a little over $1). Be mindful to get the plain old veggies--no salt, additives, or butter. Frozen fruit is freaking awesome! I mostly use it in my protein shakes or to make treats for my boys.

Typically I buy fresh lettuces (like green leaf) or bags of green leafys (kale, arugula, spinach) because I use those daily. I also buy fresh squashes, avocados, peppers, tomatoes, bananas, grapefruit, oranges, plums, grapes, etc. But I limit my purchases to what I know for sure I will use that week.

 

Hopefully these tips/rules will help you along your journey. Don't let food costs keep you from doing what's best for your body and don't let the plethora of options overwhelm you. You're in this for life, so you have time to fine tune it.

Moving Mountains

". . .I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you."~Matthew 17:20

Last night after Bible study I was talking to one of my Fit Club members and a couple other ladies. They were talking about working in a call center and how they sit so much and how hard it is to get their walks in since it's cold. And if you know me then you already know that I immediately offered some un-excuses for their "reasons." I quoted them the scripture about speaking to the mountain and telling it to move. We can move mountains if we believe we can.

I don't know that God meant that the mountain would literally move, but I believe that it's more about your faith and belief being so big that you no longer see the obstacle as a mountain. You no longer see it as this big, huge, insurmountable thing. Too often we encounter "mountains" and surrender all too soon. We see it looming in the distance and accept defeat. We decide that victory just isn't on the agenda for today and go back to merely existing.

Instead of seeing the mountain, I challenge you to see what is beyond it. I challenge you to come up with an un-excuse for every excuse that comes to mind for why you aren't practicing healthy habits. If you are honest with yourself, you may come to realize that you just don't care to remove the mountain; you want the results without the climb. Your faith has to be so strong that you believe nothing less than victory is acceptable. Your faith has to be so strong that you keep pushing even when the scale isn't showing you the numbers you think you want. Faith? Yes, faith.

While on an a hellacious 15k I learned a lesson in faith--I was literally on a mountain!! There were points during the race when I was praying for a bike or van or go cart to pick me up. There were times when I didn't think my legs could take me any further. Once I stopped crying and praying for an easy way off the mountain, I put my shoulders back, turned up my music, pumped my arms and step by step moved forward along the course towards victory.

Victory requires that you be courageous. Courage requires faith. Faith requires action.

Undigested Knowledge

"The great end of life is not knowledge, but action. What men need is as much knowledge as they can assimilate and organize into a basis for action. . ." ~Thomas Henry Huxley

Losing weight is not rocket science. I've lost weight by taking diet pills, following diet fads, attempting to starve myself, wearing contraptions and devices, even weight loss surgery. All these methods can work to lose weight, but once you get back to real life you tend to find all that weight you lost. The problem then, is not losing the weight (I actually prefer the term "shedding" instead of "losing" because when you shed something you don't get it back). The problem is maintaining a lifestyle to never get it back.

I remember back in the fall of 2009 I had to make the hard choice to give up my YMCA membership because I just couldn't afford it anymore.  At that time I was about six or seven months post surgery and was probably around 280 lbs and I was scared of gaining back whatever weight I had lost. I was also scared of not losing anymore weight. It seemed like everytime I got into a stride with the whole fitness thing life would throw me a curveball and I'd end up back in the dugout (I know nothing about baseball so that's the end of that metaphor!). I thought about how I could be active without depending on a gym, an instructor, any eqiupment, etc. The answer: running.

My first attempt at running was based on an article in Muscle&Fitness Hers that talked about interval training. I made up my own version of interval training and would hit the pavement in the evenings after putting the boys to sleep. . .then it got cold. It would be another six months or so before I ventured back into the world of running. I didn't know much about running so I read a few articles on Runner's World website and put together a training plan based on Hal Higdon and Jeff Galloway's plans. With my goal in mind and a little bit of knowledge I set off to make it happen.  Along the way I have picked up nuggets of knowledge and put them to use.

Why am I telling you this? I'm telling you this because the lesson I learned is that knowledge is useless without the application. I also learned that you don't have to every detail in order to DO something. So, again, why am I telling you this? Because too often we start our journey at a breakneck pace and get all this information on exercise, dieting, superfoods, supplements, etc and we go hard for a week. What is the use of all that knowledge if you're not doing anything with it?

The most effective thing you can do to get on the right track to fitness is to GET ON THE TRACK. Once you're on it you will pick up nuggets along the way to help you move more efficiently. So what that your sister is all into eating clean. For now, you just need to focus on eating better and clean it up as you go along. Mature in your journey before you start getting fancy. So what that your cousin does Crossfit five days a week. For now, you just need to focus on being ACTIVE on a consistent basis before you drop the deniro for something like that.



(No, this is not my foot.)



Do what you can with what you have, right where you are. My first jogs were in shoes that I bought from Goodwill that were about a half-size too small for running; my toenail turned black and fell off. Freaked me out! But from that I learned the importance of proper fitting running shoes. My first forays into preparing healthy meals for my family included a lot of processed foods. But along the way I've learned how to make better choices and how to eat healthier on a budget.

Your actions will net you results. If you stay on the track you will get better at it. I have people asking me for help all the time and my first suggestion for them is to exercise 3-4 times a week for 30-45 minutes a day for three weeks and track what they are eating (with adjustments made accordingly). Why? Because I want to see if they line up their actions with their words. I want to see if they are willing to invest the time in themselves. Are you ready to do something different to BE something different? It's not rocket science. . .it's applied science.

My "Why" Remembered

"Life is a gift, and it offers us the privilege, opportunity, and responsibility to give something back by becoming more." --Tony Robbins

People use blogs for different things. I started this blog as a way of staying accountable but also with the hope that somewhere someone would read it and relate. My blogs mean something to me. I feel like a little piece of me is in each one. For the past couple of weeks I've been trying very hard to come up a topic but so far none of the outlines resonate with me. They come across as "preachy" and removed. If you wanted to learn about goal-setting you could go buy a book or Bing/Google it the same way I can. What I bring you here is snapshot into my journey in the hopes that it gives you fuel to continue your own. This weekend I was reminded of my "why" for starting this blog and the whole coaching initiative in the first place.

For those who have followed the Chronicles, if you recall I started a run/walk group called Fit Girl Posse back in September of 2010. It started off slow--one person showed up (love you Rhonda!)--but I've kept pushing. In January I renewed my efforts and streamlined some things. At the first scheduled meeting zero--yes, zilch--people showed up. At the second meeting my heart was full because six people showed up, including my best friend who is not into sweating, especially on a Saturday morning. In the few weeks since then I've seen one lady just absolutely rock the house (Casey, I'm talking about you!) and another begin to wield her influence to get those around her active (MP, that's you!).

This weekend I saw a friend who has battled weight right along with me run/walk 3.4 miles--EASY. I saw a mother, who is fighting to get fit, encourage her daughter along 2.4 miles. I watched that same daughter, in spite of her pain, finish every inch of the course--not taking the easy way out or bailing on the task at hand. I saw a little girl with asthma run alongside her mom instead of opting for her scooter. I heard a friend, with aching shins, thank me for getting her to come out. I saw a woman, who an hour earlier didn't want to part from her blanket and pillow, run ahead of everyone and finish an extra lap. I saw women who moments earlier had been strangers, encourage each other on to victory.


Fit Girl Posse @ Cane Ridge Park (2-26-11)

These women and girls reminded of me of why I chose this course. They reminded me of the vision God hid in my heart. Yes, as a Beachbody Coach I would love to earn an income. Yes, I have personal fitness goals to meet. But I believe with every thing that is within me that when you allow yourself to be used to bless others you CANNOT fail. Some people don't get it. Some may call it Pollyanna or Utopian. Whatever. As much as people tell me that I've inspired them, I am spurred forward by the evidence of success I see around me.

In twelve days I will step onto the course of the Tom King Classic Half-Marathon, ill prepared and nervous. When I hit mile 6 and think about turning back, I will see Rakeyya and keep pushing. When I hit mile 10 and think I can't go on, I will think of Bailey's little lungs and keep pushing. When I have conquered 13.1 miles I will look back on the course and know that I did not do it alone.


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